Reason，Season，Lifetime...
2004年8月16日 恋愛【 Reason， Season， Lifetime 】
People come into your life for a reason， a season， or a lifetime. When you figure out which one it is， you will know what to do for each person.
When someone is in your life for a REASON. It is usually to meet a need you have expressed. He or she has come to assist you through a difficulty， to provide you with guidance and support， to aid you physically， emotionally or spiritually. He or she may seem like a godsend， and that person is! He or she is there for the reason you need him or her to be. Then， without any wrongdoing on your part， or at an inconvenient time， this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes that person dies. Sometimes walks away. Sometimes acts up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met; our desire fulfilled; and that that person’s work is done. The prayer you sent up has now received an answer and it is time to move on.
When people come into your life for a SEASON. Because your turn has come to share， grow， or learn， some people bring you experience of peace， or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real， but only for a season!!
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson， love the person， and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. There is a saying that goes like this: “love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant. Work like you don’t need the money， love like you’ve never been hurt， and dance like no one is watching!”
これは私が彼に出会ったときに送られてきたメールからの抜粋です。久々に読みたくなったので、彼に再度送ってもらいました（笑）。皆さんにも読んでもらいたく、日記に書いてみました。
People come into your life for a reason， a season， or a lifetime. When you figure out which one it is， you will know what to do for each person.
When someone is in your life for a REASON. It is usually to meet a need you have expressed. He or she has come to assist you through a difficulty， to provide you with guidance and support， to aid you physically， emotionally or spiritually. He or she may seem like a godsend， and that person is! He or she is there for the reason you need him or her to be. Then， without any wrongdoing on your part， or at an inconvenient time， this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes that person dies. Sometimes walks away. Sometimes acts up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met; our desire fulfilled; and that that person’s work is done. The prayer you sent up has now received an answer and it is time to move on.
When people come into your life for a SEASON. Because your turn has come to share， grow， or learn， some people bring you experience of peace， or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real， but only for a season!!
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson， love the person， and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. There is a saying that goes like this: “love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant. Work like you don’t need the money， love like you’ve never been hurt， and dance like no one is watching!”
これは私が彼に出会ったときに送られてきたメールからの抜粋です。久々に読みたくなったので、彼に再度送ってもらいました（笑）。皆さんにも読んでもらいたく、日記に書いてみました。
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